The whole reason for any experience in our lives, is to call forth a remembrance of who we really are as an object of infinite potential. We are created as... All That Is and All That Is Not.
If we stop trying to control, move past, go beyond, cast out, go above, or run from the possibilities of ‘negative’ experiences... then there is no reason for them to control us anymore.  It's usually the negative ones that we dwell on the most.
In other words, the instant we realize and accept that everything in our life is equal, then we recognize that we cannot go beyond or move past negative situations. They are part of our life!        I have to work really hard at this. The negative situations are equal to us, since we are infinitely everything. That's an empowering thought.
Hence, we need to become accepting to just let go (OR, "Let Go; Let God,) and allow the idea that the possibility of a ‘negative’ situation has the potential to happen at anytime! You can become perfectly content with that idea, since you soon realize that every ‘negative’ situation is created, sometimes by ourselves, and allows us to grow! Now, that idea I like.
Magicians often use mirrors to perform their illusions because mirrors reflect a clear image of life making the illusion seem very real; you are unaware of the mirror that the magician is using. When you are the "magician" in real life situations... then there is no illusion; you see the mirror and you use the mirror as a tool.
Think of reality as a mirror, then we must change ourselves in order to see the change in the mirror. If you desire for your hair to change then you must comb or brush the hair on your head in order to see the change in the mirror. More times than not, people will try to change what they see by changing the mirrored reflection. A famous quote says, “Be the change you want to see in the world” this is exactly what that quote means. When you take responsibility for all of your reality, then you give yourself the power to change anything within your reality. Cool, huh?
We can adopt this perspective into reality, by first looking around at everything we see and hear in our reality right now. Next, close your eyes. When you close your eyes in the moment, you are telling your mind to refresh your viewpoint. Now, open your eyes and look around you again, except this time see everything as if we are looking into a mirror. Everything you are now seeing or hearing is a reflection of the mirror within you.
Everything starts from within and is reflected outwardly. If we don't like what we see... in any aspect of our life... the reality and negative situation is ours to alter. I'm a believer!